Road to self-worth and self-acceptance
Ever wondered and even asked yourself at a point in your life like “I’m so tired of being wounded, what am I gonna do to heal?
Well, we always tend to loose ourselves from the right track and started to crumble with our self-inflicted harms by allowing shady darkness and pain home inside us. It’s really necessary to of course be free from that excruciating and consuming self-hatred and let me show you some ways on how to heal yourself (based from my own experiences too).
- Decide to pick yourself up.
You are all too beaten up to stand and fix your life in general. Sudden untoward circumstances try to wind up your way and make up some devastating contemplation yet you keep on allowing things like that to happen. Well, Pick yourself up. You have to tell yourself that you really need to change. Change for the better. That there’s no other time than ‘now and that there is no other day than today. It’s not all too late to be free. Time is our friend. Time extends help.
- Remind yourself that you are loved by you.
You’ve given so much love to the world that you forgot your own self and that after the delimma, you all feel like you have nothing left in you and that you keep thinking about how worthless you are. We all went through that stage and believe me it’s hard to convince ourselves that we have to love our own skin most times but when we do, it’s all worth it and it sparks our inner self towards acceptance.
- Accept what’s done and what’s gone.
It’s hard to deal with the situation like, we keep on involving ourselves with what the past gave us. You should really accept the situation because acceptance is the key towards happiness. We all have different tolerance of pain and that, healing really takes time. Move on (I know it won’t be that easy) but this is life. We need to live and not just exist. You’re existence matter. Let’s accept that we all are imperfect and we need to home into that imperfections perfectly.
Don’t block yourself from the growth you deserve. Life has so much to offer. Embrce everything, from the slightest change to the most overt ones. Let wisdom flow naturally in your veins and as much as possible, channel your negativity and make them your mirror and imrpove yourself by making that perspective as a part of you that you want to change. Be empathic. Feel everyone and through that, you’ll know how to sort things out. By that, growth will exist.
- Don’t be afraid to meet people with the same mental issues.
It’s necessary to choose your circle of friends. Someone who sees you as you. Someone who knows everything about you and is willing to be a part of your life and both grow together and learn lessons together. It’s essential to have someone with us whom we can be as open as wide. Enough with building colossal walls and cages, we can’t isolate ourselves and we can’t be selfish, there are those who need our time and attention, listen to them and hear them out and extend your help when they need so. That way, you grow and they grow too.
These are some of the ways on how to heal yourself. This may not be everything that you are expecting to read but this might help. So cheers to more of that self-worth we have for ourselves. Most of the time, we can easily say, “I love this skirt, I love this pen, I love this place, I love this dress.” But we rarely say, “I love me.” Start living now, you deserve everything, you deserve you and even the beauty the world has to offer. Love your scars but don’t forget to feel whole again and be free.